Each one you meet, each one you connect, each one you interact with is different from you. differences of opinion are normal sometimes. the difference of opinion converts into an argument and sometimes into conflict. it must have happened in your past but you need to check is it still on your mind because you are back with them. you're working with them. you're living with them. everything seems to be normal. the relationship seems to be perfect but if you're holding on to that past on your mind. if you still remember that argument if you still remember that conflict then the vibration you're radiating to them is through the filter of that conflict. which you're holding on to it is through that perception which you have of them based on what happened that day. because you still believe they are that way people change. it takes a moment to change. are you looking at them through a new perspective because even if they have changed?
if you don't change your perspective they will still seem the same to you. what you believe about people is, how you perceive them through your mind. if they change you need to perceive them. even if they have not changed change your perspective about them and they will feel different to you but if you hold on to that what happened in the past. if you still create that emotion which happened that day. if it can still bring a tear to your eye. if it can still create anger or hurt inside. then your relationship stands very fragile. it will take nothing to create another conflict. just one word and the relationship may come crashing down one day. check and remove the conflicts. the arguments, those ugly scenes of the past from the foundation of your relationship. it could have been something really terrible. what you believe but today is a new day a strong foundation. a beautiful relationship can stand on it again but a beautiful relationship standing on a weak foundation has no future.
The foundation is on what I hold in mind. not what's going on outside. the foundation of a relationship is not outside. the foundation is what I believe about them and what memories I've held on to her about our interactions and connections. so clean the foundation check subtle. check clean, no hurt, no pain and no past memory. which was not pleasant. it's past. it's over i release, i strengthen my foundation. I fill it with all the beautiful memories with all the very pleasant interactions we had. they were very very few which were not beautiful and yet why are they such a predominant part of our foundation. is it really worth? it just for those few sins. is it worth it to weaken my relationship and most important for me not to be happy inside tomorrow meet everyone as if you are meeting them the first time? let not the past come over in the present they may have thought about it they may have reflected. they may be guilty of what they have done. they have decided to change. are you ready to meet the new them tomorrow? change your perception they are ready to meet you a new way.
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