We don't know when we are going to live but we can be certain of one thing that last moment. When I will leave. will be happy and dignified. we can be certain that my last moment is going to be very happy and dignified but who will be able to create happiness and dignity in the last moment. who has created happiness in dignity in all the other moments of life? I cannot create chaos, anger, stress throughout challenges in life 

when somebody is leaving it's possible to be peaceful and calm. if their body is not getting healed and if all medical practices say that body cannot be healed. can I offer a response of dignity to them? which says “I understand you can no more be in this body. request you to please leave”. Can we ask them to leave from here? radiate those thoughts to them can we ask them to leave with dignity. I was at a hospital a few months back and there is this couple who comes up to me and says. My mother is in the ICU and the doctor says nothing is working out and there's no way she can come out of. what she is in right now. she's suffering. I said go and sit with her, hold her hand, say whatever you want to say and then radiate a beautiful thought to her. your new body is ready to please leave. please don't be in pain here. please don't trouble yourself so much. say it with the mind at the first moment they both were shocked. They said you want me to tell my mother to go. you are telling me that I should wish for my mother to go. I said no I'm only asking you to wish for the peace and dignity of your mother and really she started working on herself and she said “yes, I'm being very selfish. because I only want her to be here for me. Is this love. Is this respect. is this care. No, we want them to be here only for us love means caring for them.” 

life demands the right responses in every situation. now if someone is suffering and the doctor says there's no way they can come out of it. At that time I create a thought no don't go. don't go. don't go. be here for me then what is my thought, my feeling, and my emotion. What is it doing to their journey? it is causing them to suffer more. and more and more people around us could suffer for a few days. sometimes for months and sometimes for yours. only because of all of us who claim to love them. are holding them back with our energy. Which says don't go. don't go. don't go. This is our response to that situation. each time we need to pause and check. caring for them, loving them, wanting them to live a life of respect and dignity. demands the right response from our family. one way is to increase their suffering, many fold emotional suffering, and physical suffering. and one way is to sit with them and talk to them. say everything you want to say to them, ask them for forgiveness for anything that must have happened in life. forgive them for any pain you are holding about what they have done. clear all the energies in between clear everything and allowed them to have a beautiful journey forward. This is a response to a situation.

It is my attachment which is creating the irritation. It is my attachment which is creating suffering. It is my attachment which is not allowing me to respond in a dignified manner. which is not allowing my family members to have a dignified journey life. has lots of scenes to offer but when we start using our power. We will see what amazing power we have .which means to be able to choose the right response in every situation and then the situation for which we say is the toughest. a situation which can come in someone's life is when someone leaves the body and moves on the journey. and then we believe that crying, getting upset, and hurt forever is normal because they have left. 

spirituality teaches us they have only changed their body. they can catch each and every thought, feeling, vibration. the soul has left from this body and taken another body. the soul has entered the womb of the new mother. What do you want to send to them? Do you want that baby to cry? We want that baby to be a happy and healthy body. you want them to be happy. remember them with love not remember them with pain. we will always remember them. we are not going to ever forget them. but there is remembrance with pain and remembrance with love and then we meditate for them daily and while we are meditating we're creating healing energy, not energy which says, “how could you leave me. come back. this is unfair. why did you do this to me?” what will all these thoughts do. can you visualize the soul in the womb receiving these thoughts? how could you leave me? come back and in fact in today's times even trying methods to connect to them to talk to them and get them back. When we create all this energy do we know what effect it has on the soul on the whoomp? Do we know what effect it has on the soul of visualization? you have left your family and you are in another place and the family is sending this energy to you. how could you do this to me? I cannot live without you. I don't want to live anymore. what will happen to that soul there? what will happen to that soul there? how much pain, how much turmoil, how much fear, how much worry, how much anxiety and we say we love them. so if we love them what will we send them. if we love them not love them only while they were here in this body but we love them. then what are the vibrations we'll send to them what. what message would you send to the soul who's moved on the journey? what will we send to them? be happy where you are. we are fine here. we will take care of ourselves. you take care of yourself. one thought is we will take care of ourselves. you are happy with the new family. one response to the other response I cannot live without you. how could you do this to me? come back. can you see the two different responses in the same situation? 

when my mind is overpowered by the pain of the situation and I say being upset and crying is normal. the situation overpowered me and the other response where I chose the right response for that situation. I heal them, I heal the family around me. I heal myself. the situation does not change. some situations cannot change but the situations which are going to follow after that will change. 

when we heard mothers going through complications. children going through complications. while in their womb. It has a lot to do with energy. which the previous family is sending to them. if the previous family starts sending happiness, love, respect, blessings. the child will be very settled in the new hope there that's a response to a situation certain. we are certain that we will create a response of stability, of power, peace, and respect.

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